So, as I learned, what you think is a witty message may just come across as you being an ass.
Take, for example, my attempt at humor with one of my first interactions.
There’s no debating reality: lesbians are working with a far smaller potential dating pool than straight women, and (for reasons unknown to me) there are far fewer lesbian geared events than events geared at gay males.
We’re straight up less visible, and dating apps allow us to safely browse through girls WE KNOW like girls.
When we met up at the bar, I instantly knew it was her because she was wearing veils. Like I wondered if she pulled a stock photo for it. I deleted her number and two weeks later, I deleted my profile." —Cassidy 5.
Like, head-to-foot harem-wear, with a floor-length dress made of veils and floaty wing-like pieces that attached at her wrists so every time she moved her arm to pick up her drink, it cast a patchouli-scented breeze, and loads of dangly jewelry to match — she jingled a lot. "She started telling me about her favorite bathrooms." "I recently went on a Tinder date to a brewery with what seemed like a nice woman.
One downside of everyone being on Ok Cupid is everyone will know you are on Ok Cupid.