They’ve been burned when they tried to help before, and they don’t want to get burned again. Result: You now have a not-so-real friendship because you have to pretend to be supportive of her choice in a husband.You make excuses for not wanting to spend time with them because he makes your skin crawl.
You slowly drift apart, and the very thing you were trying to avoid (losing her as a friend) happens anyway.
There’s a fine balance between loving your man and smothering your man.
But, if you put us on a leash, we’ll gnaw it off and go even more crazy once we’re free.
There are countless posts online where women complain about their deadbeat boyfriends for never paying for anything, never buying them gifts, always playing video games all day long while still living at home in their parent’s basement, and never holding on to a job for more than a year to save their lives.
Whatever the reason, you might want to give him a chance (or a second chance) to redeem himself. Find out more about him and try to feel comfortable. Playing nice is hard but sometimes the most mature thing to do.